Sunday, February 25
Down Girl! Chill out.
So today I was talking with a woman who likes me, who cares, who I've known for a very long time. And she said something so totally offensive to me that I was speechless. I just stared at her for a moment and she was like "What, no comeback?" Apparently, she thought it was a funny joke. It took like five breaths to calm down and think "Chill out Nina, she didn't mean it" over and over in my head. And here I am hours later, and it is still kinda nagging at me. And she probably has no idea it bothered me at all.
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Don't suppress your hurt feelings or try to cancel them out. They are valid, Nina. It's so normal to feel emotions first and THEN try to figure them out--but don't act like they're not there. I personally think you should approach this good friend of yours. I love you!
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